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What SHE Needs

January 27, 2008 · Written by Heather Juma

coupleinlove.jpg What’s a girl really want from that special guy in her life?  We heard Phil tell us what a guy needs, and yes in spite of our beliefs to the contrary his list didn’t include food, sex and absolute and total control over the remote!

So here’s what a girl needs … a guy who will listen, not a guy that will just nod his head, say “um hm” or grunt every two minutes, and then swear up down five minutes later that ”you never told me that”.  We really want guys to listen, to understand us and take what we have to say seriously, not just tune us out and pretend they’re listening to us.

Girls want romance!  We would love to be swept off our feet now and then!  Hey guys surprise us, do something romantic!  It doesn’t have to be fancy, leave a love note on our pillow, snuggle on the couch with us, bring home a bag of our favorite cookies.  Something simple, spontaneous and most of all something that shows that you took the time to think about us in the middle of your busy day.

Ask us about our dreams for our lives.  Again listen to what we have to say, believe in us, encourage us, support us.  Be the “cheerleaders” in our lives, tell us how proud you are of us when we accomplish a goal or have a “win” in our lives.  Be 100% supportive even if things don’t go as planned.  Have “our back”, we need you there with us as we strive to be ”all” that we can be.

So what’s a girl need?  Love, Respect and Understanding.

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  1. Alicia Knox on January 30th, 2008 5:37 pm

    I totally agree. It doesn’t take much to make us happy. As long as a man understands our needs WOW! The chemistry is the BOMB! When they don’t understand, it’s a turn off and you get tired of the relationship. If there are any guys reading, take this advice seriously!

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